Reply nathan says: August 17, 2011 at 12:05 pm Neither of your points really demonstrate anything different from my comment about lack of trust. Although maybe the wording of the sentence you’ve pulled out could have been clearer. If you don’t feel “100% on board” with, for example, moving in with someone, you are demonstrating a lack of trust. Perhaps I should clarify though that the trust issue might be with yourself. You might not trust yourself, but instead do something to question your partner’s commitment instead. In terms of DJoe’s comments, you’re right that people go to great lengths to hide the truth from others. I have been through such hiding by a partner myself, so I’m aware of the “finding evidence” impulse behind snooping. I think that sentence I originally wrote could be re-written to say “When someone snoops around, it’s because they don’t trust the relationship as it is.” Now, it might be very valid not to trust the relationship as it is, as in the case of being with someone trying to hide adultery. But I don’t think people choose to snoop on their partners and also have total trust in the relationship. The two seem mutually exclusive to me. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 1 Thumb down 0 Reply Divorced Joe says: August 17, 2011 at 2:23 pm I know moxie doesn’t want mutual admiration comments, but I think your rewrite is very perceptive. <p><a href="https://russian-women.linknavy.nl/">Understanding the Mistake Buffer in Dating</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.linkenonline.nl/">The Busted Dudes Test</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.startactueel.nl/">Warning Signs A Girl Isn&rsquo;t Worth A Relationship</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.startdorp.nl/">How To Get Laid Without Approaching</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.startschakel.nl/">Is It A Bad Idea To Ask For Phone Numbers?</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.linkcommunity.nl/">How To Tell A Girl What You Do</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.mijnstartonline.nl/">Knowledge Alone Isn&rsquo;t Enough To Improve Your Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.jestartpagina.nl/">Don&rsquo;t Disrespect My Friend</a></p>